Hi guys. Wasn't sure if I should post this in this section or the self-esteem section because I'm worried this problem is just my fault because of my low self-esteem but here I go.

Basically I'm in this wonderful relatively new relationship (6 months) and I’ve never been happier OR healthier. But we’re having a bit of tension lately because he felt he couldn’t talk to me about his feelings and problems because I had so much going on (read: I have anxiety and depression etc, usual fun can of worms). I assured him that he can always talk to me, that I always want to be his support and help him, and that I had no idea he felt that way. He was happy and we felt better. But I still feel like he’s currently enjoying hanging out with his family more than with me.

I’m wondering if this is just my self-esteem being sensitive though, because right now I don’t have a job or any friends, due to big disasters with my illnesses in the last year. Am I paranoid, clingy, needy, codependent? I’m terrified I’m going to drive him away and ruin this relationship and lose him, and that’s the last thing I want. I love him so much and I want to do whatever it takes to make both of us happy in a healthy way that helps both of us learn and grow together.

Please help, any suggestions or insights would be great and very encouraging/comforting! Thanks!!