I agree, you deserve better!

I recently read an interview article in the local paper. They interviewed Tom Arnold. I've never been a huge fan of his, but I think he's really matured over the years. The interviewer asked him if he was still in contact with Roseanne (his ex-wife) and he said no, he hasn't spoken to her in quite some time. He continued by saying that continuing contact with an ex when there are no children involved is like playing with fire. I couldn't agree more.

Why does he need to be in contact with these ex's? Ex-wives, ex-girlfriends.....there is no need for it! I don't think there is a problem with someone having FRIENDS of the opposite sex, but this seems to go too far!

I read a POS article about how to judge if a guy was a keeper, and one of the points said that its a good thing if a guy is friend with his ex's. I was like WHOA! Stop the presses.... Holding on to a friendship with an ex is pretty much saying that you don't care about the baggage with said ex interfering with future relationships. I don't know about you, but with BILLIONS of people in the world, I can easily make new friends and not need to keep around an ex (and all of those complications). I much rather look forward and let go of the past.

You definitely deserve better. Please let this player go. How much do you actually like HIM and not just the attention that he gives you? (Because we all know that players are excellent at making others feel special with all of that attention that they shower around....its part of the game and in no way, shape, or form is an actual indication of their true feelings for you!)