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Originally Posted by UCMATH
From one Bipolar lesbian to another: I started laughing so hard, 'cause the moment I saw "Okay, right...so I have a pretty big sex drive" I thought, "Try having Bipolar Disorder." Ha!
Casual sex isn't something to be ashamed of, and tons of people engage in it. I think it's only a problem if you're hypomanic during the sexual encounters and end up regretting them or hurting someone else. If you honestly don't think you'd regret a hypomanic hook-up, then go for it.
I think it would be okay for you to mention your desire for this other woman while you're sober. The worst thing she can do is turn you down.
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Yeah, honestly I'm not thinking it is a bad thing. Perhaps not something to make a habit, but as long as people are safe about it, the way I see it is that it's just two bodies. No big deal usually. For someone special no doubt, but making love and having sex are two completely different things.
Anyway...mentioned it to her. She said she didn't care that what happened happened. But I threw out the possibility of it happening again and got zero response. I'm going to take that as a no lol.
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Originally Posted by Webgoji
I agree with UCMATH, nothing to be ashamed of there. Just keep in mind that not everyone is into quick hook-ups. So while you're fine with casual sex, the girl you were flirting with might not have been. You know, just differences in people. Nothing to regret or be ashamed of, just something to keep in mind.
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Yeah, I think that is how this girl must be. It's new to me! Lol. I've only had sex with 5 girls (3 I was dating), but always started it and was never rejected/teased in such a way before. I started getting a bit mad lol. If I were a guy I would have had blue balls lmfao.
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Originally Posted by Confluxual
I think generally you're okay. It's a natural thing..
By the way, "thought" is actually "thot" it's like a term referring to hoe, or slut..
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That makes so much more sense now. That has to be what she meant. Gotta say it is offensive though lol. Like indirectly calling me a slut XD. But it's most important to be happy with oneself so I guess I don't mind much what other people think and I am pretty sure that she (and anyone who could have possibly overheard) thinks I'm a slut hah. XD
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