Okay, now he has said to me that on Father's Day he wants nothing but for me to watch Stargate. If I don't, he will not accept any gifts from me. He says it's my choice what to do- "you can refuse if you can live with your conscience." This puts me in a very tough position. I tried to explain my point of view, but he won't listen. He says one episode is not a big deal, and that he did things for his father all the time that he didn't want to do. He asked if I would leave my mother to starve if he was dead and she lost her memory, which is such an unfair comparison. I really don't know what to do. Do you think I should just give in? If I do, this all goes away. But it will be telling him that it's okay to treat me this way. If I don't, I can imagine him holding a grudge forever and he gets to look like the victim since it's Father's Day. He's an incredible arguer, and can make me question very easily whether I'm brave and independent or a selfish jack***.