i agree with Direction about the seperation agreement. not only will it protect you but it may also be a wake up call for him. he will see that you are serious and intend to stand by what you have said about not having the addiction in your marriage. also i would like to know if you have invited him to an alanon meeting? just ask him to sit in. he doesn't have to participate, just sit there and listen. alot of times addicts like to pretend that their problem is their own. hearing how addiction has changed and effected people close to the abuse is alot of times a shock. because they tend to write you off as over-reactive so they don't have to deal with the guilt.

best of luck,
recluse1