(((Sunrise)))

I am so sorry you are feeling down, and unsupported.

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Certainly, zillions of couples go through divorce each year, and most of them don't have a therapist. I am just a wuss?

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I don't see it that way; yes, zillions go through it but few know the secret of self-care that you now know...I hope you can find a way to afford the individual sessions that you need. Not as a luxury but a necessity?

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T is just trying to go for greater transparency between all of us,

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The idea of transparency on T's part is noble, but maybe not always ready for it? I remember leaving a message once for T and when he returned call, he left a message with my husband, that wasn't clear it was for me and that I wish he hadn't left. so, I called back and told him i wasn't clear about it. I think now, that i will only leave my cell phone # to avoid this circumstance.

Sunrise, you are so courageous to be going through this couple's therapy with your T. These problems are exactly what I am afraid of dealing with, and I have been avoiding scheduling the couples session, although we really need it. I am afraid.

I wish you blessings and courage to continue.