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Old May 12, 2015, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Webgoji View Post
ROFL! You know what the cure for blue balls is? Grabbing the back of your car and picking it up! Seriously! It gets the blood flowing to your muscles and out of ... other areas so it doesn't hurt. Had to use it a few times.

But on another note, rejection is just part of life. (Heck, I've been married for 14 years and still deal with regularly ) It's rude to tease like she did though. So it sounds like you actually came out on the upside ... you probably didn't want to be around her if she was like that anyway.

Yeah, I mean I'm not like upset/mad about the rejection in a "I hate you" sort of way...more of like a "damn you" sort of way (I haven't had real sex in over 8 months...and that was the first sexual contact period during that time span as well). Lol. But hah we're still likely to run into each other a few more times and I think we're both cool dropping it and just being 100% platonic friends or whatever lol. I don't have a choice of course anyways XD

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Yeah ... that's the first thing I think when I hear "thot" ...

That has to be one of the weirdest terms I've ever heard so I looked it up. I guess it stands for That Ho Over There. Classy ...

A "thot" is not a slut: On popular slurs, race, class, and sex.
I had never heard it before so literally felt like she was speaking a different language haha. I agree "classy" lol. Honestly, I think the term "slut" is nicer than "ho" or "thot" now. Not to be all philosophical or whatever, but Thot might be the most dehumanizing one of the bunch.

Personally, I don't care who sleeps with who...I just hope they're safe, ethical, and use protection hahah. If it were up to me these sorts of words wouldn't exist. Big woop...you did some things with another persons body and you both felt nice. The end (or so it should be). haha. XD
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