I appreciate your suggestion but I'm not one who has a lot of issues a lot and when I do I need to talk to someone NOW not a week from Thursday at 2pm. ya know So a forum like this gives me the ability to talk to others with the same problems I have and the same pains, people who understand. Unless that therapist is Bipolar they DON't understand. I've never gone to a therapy session and been in a place where I needed to talk. It's always when I can't get in to see someone that I don't have anyone.