Thank you all for your replies. ChipperMonkey, you have him down to a T. He says all the right things. He's perfect except he can't be faithful to one woman. He doesn't consider it cheating since it's only "banter" and we're not married. That's where he and I disagree, and for me it's a deal breaker. Thanks so much for helping me realize what's going on isn't normal. I knew it, I just needed validation. Thank you! You all have been a huge help.