I wasn't going to tell my husband since there was no damage but he is a mechanic so I was concerned he might notice something. He just said he was worried about the kids riding around with me but he was glad I drive the safest car on the road (I drive a Volvo xc90--he is a Volvo mechanic). He says he knows I am an "airhead" sometimes so what can he do? He told me to be more careful and to treat "that nice car he bought me better." I don't understand why he patronizes me so much sometimes and seems oblivious to reality.

I am fine driving. I AM just an airhead sometimes and I am sure that is all that's wrong.