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He probably is not the right guy for you. He has to want to change his behavior... and it appears he does not want to.. he does not like you enough....
.. and on the other hand.. he may have developed some friendships that he values for whatever reason... and he will resent you if you are on him about it...
Either accept "who he is" right here and now or let him go... do not wait for change.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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