I agree he is not a respectful man and you deserve someone who take your feelings into consideration. He is a player. Just try cut him lose and you will find someone who treats you right.

I have met several users/abusers/players, all of them in varying degree, last two men I had in my life, my xhusband and last boyfriend, were both abusive and users on high level. I waited too long to get out early on with my last boyfriend and I wasted time. Just cut him lose and you will feel better sooner than if you stay in the relationship.

When I started read you post about his texting I immediately saw red flags.