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Originally Posted by marigold115
Thank you all for your replies. ChipperMonkey, you have him down to a T. He says all the right things. He's perfect except he can't be faithful to one woman. He doesn't consider it cheating since it's only "banter" and we're not married. That's where he and I disagree, and for me it's a deal breaker. Thanks so much for helping me realize what's going on isn't normal. I knew it, I just needed validation. Thank you! You all have been a huge help.
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Was reminded of the exbf of six years, my hs sweetheart, so to speak. Painted me as the overemotional, overreacting one because he just needed to be friends to mainly only girls. There was this one girl, cannot recall if she was a quasi-local friend of a friend during hs or friend of a friend through college. She wasn't exactly the breakup of his and my relationship, meeting his future wife(now ex) was, but...all these years later, one night a couple of weeks ago, I'd viewed his fb for the first time in six or seven years...guess who was there? Talking about drinks and Sade? Yeah...her...
Some women also, in turn clasp onto men, with future ideas regardless and call it being friends.
I'm old fashioned myself. When kids are involved, of course there's a fair amount of contact. Without kids, whatever happened to the family xmas cards?? Or better yet...no cards, no contact? Perhaps case by case on limited contact, dependent, but an entire car ride home?
Sorry to hear of his illness, but honest to goodness!