That "crossing over" stuff is just weird. I don't really get what your T means....even if you did get an exotic charge once in a while from holding hands who cares??? I mean I am gay. My T is straight, married with multiple kids. I have zero attraction to her. In fact the idea of kissing her makes me think "yuck!" In the same way I would if b someone wanted me to make out with my brother. But we do somatic work and the other day she put her hands on my ribs and boom! Nipple erection. I don't know why. Never happened before. I didn't feel anything else just that momentary charge. I was wearing a very fitted t shirt and a light bra and I'm pretty sure it was obvious. She just kept doing what she was doing and after a few minutes the feeling dissipated. My T is awesome. It just strikes me as odd. Like misplaced homophobia. it seems like she is uncomfortable with it in a way that makes it a bigger deal than it ought to be.

I'm glad you had a good session. it just strikes me as odd. Especially when you've said it's not the touching that triggered it.