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Originally Posted by Coco3
I can imagine how things add up. You opening up and telling how you feel by giving those notes. Him neglecting them by not talking about it. And then his rude behavior in your last session. I would feel rejected and insecure too!
He handled it all poorly. He should've talked to you about your feelings. He shouldn't have yawned and cut the session short. That's not professional. He should know how it could come across.
He's the one being rude and unprofessional. Please don't take his behavior personally.
Is there a way that you can talk to him about it? Maybe you can write it down and hand it to him in the beginning of your next session? I know it's hard to talk about it. I did it, but that was only after a lot of sessions, and I did it via email,
because I was afraid to adress it in person.
Can you talk to your family in the meantime?
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I told my husband coco. He thought it was funny at first and made jokes, but I told him I felt like T is trying to push me away. T knows how hard and long it was for me to open up finally. I don't think it can be the same after 4 weeks. I shook his hand good bye (which I never do) and thanked him. He said this isn't good bye. I said "not yet". I thank you for support and insight I appreciate it!!!