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Your "gut" is telling you what you need to know. He has a problem... if you want to hang in there to see if he takes steps to change, that is up to you. Anyone that would put his drunk co-workers ahead of a romantic time with his lover is jerk. He did what he wanted to do and it did not involve you - painful - yes... but see the reality and make decisions based on that.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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