My T was subhuman is that an option? He not only made one mistake or two. No, he went above and beyond that. He violated my confidentiality on a continuing basis for at least one year with someone who is NOT a professional. Someone he had a crush on or who knows what. Frankly, I don't believe there is any rational excuse for his behavior. When I discovered what he was doing it crushed me. Did he care to try and clear up the matter? NO! I gave him more opportunities than you can count to be honest with me. He refuses. He can continue playing his games but be prepared for the backlash. I won't go down easily.