Dear members.
I am looking for some input regarding my gf's behaviour. I have tried to talk to her with no success and this is my last resort I believe.
My gf rages occasionally and especially after doing drugs. It's really nasty and bad and out of nowhere. The next day she just pretend like it never happend. She does not want to talk about it. (I have asked her to stop doing drugs) I have also recently found out that she's been a stripper before we met but she will not admit it and twist it back into blaiming me. (I have no issues with stripping, just the honesty bit). I even looked through her emails and also found sugarbaby emails from before she met me. (I feel ashamed for looking). When I asked her about it she says it was all a joke even if it was several emails and she gave them her phonenr and how much money she wanted. I am extremely confused since most of the time she is absolutely lovely but out of the blue she goes nuts. The other night she got crazy when I went out from a bar for a cigarette and did not ask if she wanted one. I had to spend 40 min to calm down the situation. Last night she got absolutely wasted in a bar and I had to "carry" her home. She was crazy and rude towards the cab-driver. Today she was her lovely self.
I feel like the cliche "the nice guy" who wants to help her but the fact is I am willing to give it a try, I really do care about her. I am not familiar with personality disorders but someone told me he thought she might be suffering from something.
Any ideas/thoughts are very much appreciated!
Brgds!