I'm sorry it's going roughly. I was unaware that a T would take on the couple when already working with one of them. I thought that would get very sticky - especially on the confidentiality part. Confidentiality is important in both sessions. It's not good for things to spill over unless you do the spilling, not the therapist. I hope that doesn't continue or make things too difficult. I'm sorry you have to go through all this at all. I don't think you're a wuss doing couples therapy, but wise. (((hugs)))