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Originally Posted by jo_thorne
Hi Noski. If your friend takes the time to text and talk to you online, then she obviously cares about you. It's hard to know why she isn't trying harder to meet you in real life.
All I know to say is that I've had friends online before who were very special to me but I was very hesitant to meet them in person because I feared losing the relationship.
I've had bad experiences in the past when someone turned out to be very different in person than they were online, so I've become cautious about meeting anyone from online in real life.
I'm not saying that's healthy behavior. There's fear and anxiety involved. It may not be why your friend doesn't want to meet. I guess I'm just trying to say that there are many reasons that she might be hesitant to meet that have nothing to do with whether she cares about you as a friend.
I hope that you are able to work this out and that your feelings will be soothed soon.
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Thank you so much for taking the time to reply .I thought in the beginning that she might be reluctant but she seemed so excited when we planned to go watch a movie and went to Starbucks and have girl chat because we could relate to each other .Now she never gave me the impression that she was fearing the transition and did give me a reason and this is interesting observation as well "The fact that she might be hesitant to meet has nothing to do with whether she cares about you as a friend or not " but I just can't help and we never even talked on the phone .I mean I also wonder whether her parents (overprotective control that bid too.Once we were texting and talking about accent ,so I said I really wanted to hear it and she should could me and she didn't want to either but I didn't bring it up when we recently have the "why I idn't ask you to hang out" conversation.
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Originally Posted by seeker1950
Something's not right. I wonder if this person is real, or who she says she is.
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Hi ,thank you for replying .I am not doubting at all like I said .Not for a second.I actually did send her something (she wore and showed me ) by email ,I mean she is just normal online ,with pictures and everything on instagram,fcb etc etc...Not hiding or anything !That is not what's bugging me actually