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Originally Posted by pamela33
Hi Noski. I've known people in the past who have overprotective parents, and the only possibility that comes to mind as to why she hasn't met up with you and goes out with her other friends is her parents being afraid of her meeting up in person with someone she met online. To be honest, that's something to be nervous about. That's my best guess after reading your post and reading about how certain you are that this person is real. The only way to find out is by having a serious talk with her about how you feel, exactly what you posted here, although you say you haven't spoken to her on the phone and I find that to be quite suspicious, it seems like she's hiding something.
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Hi Pamela,
Thank you so much for you reply .Yes I understand that her parents fear that and it makes sense but what she seems to say is that she's an adult (we both are )and she can hang out whenever with whoever she wants but that she is in a difficult situation because she doesn't wanna lie and feel bad If she had to hang out with me .She also acknowledged that It was a werid situation.
And Pamela we did have a serious talk (hence how for the first time she said she was being honest about the real reason why she never asked me to meet IRL).I think she completely trust me otherwise she wouldnt give me her addresses in her hometown and the town we live in and I even had to mail something in her hometown.
As for the phone conversation ,It didnt came to my mind when we were having that conversation a few days ago but I thought about it afterwards.I did sent her recordings saying hi and all a few times.And she sent me a recording of 3 seconds lol and when we were talking about accents I told her I really wanted to hear her accent she didn't want to and said she hated her voice.Weird.I wonder what would be the reason for that one too.Maybe her parents don't want her to talk on the phone to somone she met online .Does she have to tell her mom who she calls ?Absolutely not .So I'm curious about that one too ...
NOW since it was just a few days ago,I really don't wanna bring up again.I know she'll be annoyed as well but part of me really want to understand the phone conversation part.
Also despite having overprotective parents ,I am pretty sure that If he rother friends (from the same forum,the ones she gets along with and oftne talk to ) visited the city and told her to meet up,I am SURE she will.I am not saying she'll lie but she'll make efforts.So that too made me doubt a bit.She also said she understands If I need my space... IDK