Children do stupid stuff, even shameful, depraved stuff.

A 14 year old is a child...


Now if your bf said "I currently have a beastiality problem and I'm cheating on you with the neighbors hot goat" THEN I would say RUN, RUN far away and never look back.


But, we all have our own lines in the sand, I can't draw yours for you.


That's not to say I would be comfortable hearing this news myself, but I'm pretty sure it wouldn't ruin my relationship.


I also think he needs counseling, not because I fear he still does this or wants to do this, but he clearly has not moved past this, and is probably telling you as a form of seeking absolution of sorts.

A therapist may be just what both of u need.