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Old May 14, 2015, 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Big Mama View Post
Honey if you need him call him. One of my T's explained it to me like this. I don't geet paid $80 an hour, I get paid $80 a week to be at your disposal. So if you need me call me, it is time that is yours and is already paid for. You paid for it and you should use it from time to time. I had never thought of it that way.

It is not a sign of weakness if you need to talk to the T between visits. It is a sign of us being human. It would help so much if you call with an issue. I don't know about you but just a 5 min call and getting to hear the sound of there voice and the calm that they posses helps so much. I call mine in between every now and again. It is a huge help, and I think they need the reassurance as well that thy are needed and doing what is helpful to someone else. It is not always a pain in the butt like we would perceive it to be.
Mama How can I do that when he is obviously trying to distance himself. It is probably my fault because I said I was afraid of being too attached. Now he is trying to either get me to rely on myself or trying to get rid of me!!! I don't feel the same I feel shame and disappointment. The only way I will contact him is if I become a danger to myself. I am proud and stubborn and I hate that he knows how I feel about him!!!