I too was married to an alcoholic for 23 years, I have a big problem with co-dependency. My life is an emotional hell because of the hugh responsibility I feel for him. I am no longer in love with him, the drinking took care of that. I love and care about him as a person. So get out now since you have only invested 1 1/2 years into this relationship. You will be saving yourself. He will choose his path and you are not responsible (took me 25 years to learn that).

Good Luck and you are wiser that most, at least you realized early on; unlike alot of us!