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......well that is how this new psychologist I am seeing put it. I had to ask him what he meant by "screw over". First he said "You know....screw him over." Umm...no I don't know what you mean. Of coures crazy ideas are running around my head like actually screwing my therapist to reporting him(not sure for what). Finally he said, "screw him over by killing yourself."
WTF
When I am very depressed and suicidal I never think that I am screwing anyone over if I actually kill myself but I guess to him that would be the actually screw over any client can do to a therapist.
I just stared at him, cocked my head and said "oh"
He said from what I tell him, as a clinician, he should be reporting it and sending me inpatient but he does not feel scared at all that I am going to kill myself because I did not screw over my last therapist.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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