The first time my H experienced ED he tried to insinuate it was my fault, that I hadn't done something right (if you get my drift) I stopped him immediately and said that I thought that was funny cause I had been doing it RIGHT FOR 28 YEARS!!

The second time he agreed that something might be wrong and we went to the Dr. He took Viagra but it made him ill, so what fun was that??? I thought he needed to go back to the Dr. and get some testosterone shots or something. Nope he wasn't doing that so pretty much our sex life ended. It's been about 8 years or so. H is also 71 now and I'm early 60's.

We have had a superb sex life for a long time, so it is ok with me. I would never leave him over that. And I doubt, if he dies before me, that I will even consider taking my clothes off in front of someone else LOL and I'm weight and height proportionate, just NOT what I used to look like

Big hug and good luck.