Maybe you can plan going to see a pro-football game together and make a day/night of it? Try to bring some spark back into your relationship. In my experience, romance and some tenderness really is needed throughout marriage. It does come in waves....but I do encourage you to do little things throughout your marriage to show that you care.

Buy some targets & go to the shooting range with him. You might like it! (Just make sure that you wear headphones, to preserve your hearing)

Those are just a few ideas for you to think about. Best wishes to you!