ever notice yourself in the mirror?

ever feel like that person staring back at you changes if even slightly depending on what is happening in your life at the time or your mood at the time?

Well. i was noticing that and thought about one of my best old friends (name remains nameless). anyway on her facebook, she looks Hot. but when i think about how she looked (to me anyway) in person it was a completely diff story.

but that just makes me think about perception and how dif people see eachother.

i mean are people all the same? does everyone see things similarly or is it as subjective as what your fave. color is?

idk. but what i do know is when a person has high self esteem and is doing well in life, their whole aura/persona changes. they take better care of themselves.. and they just look/seem better no matter how much of an A*hole they may have been to you in the past and to other people as well

.. so question is. how do you change the way people see you in society. especially when you have an emotional disorder or mental illness in the first place? or is it all really all about how you are seeing yourself in the first place?

I Heart my Friend forever! :P