I've had many of the same things said about me!

I think the key is learning how to harness those traits and keep them on the more "positive" side of things and not going overboard.

I think that its about more than being a strong female. Aggressive driving can be dangerous for you, your passengers, and everyone else on the road. Pre-defining relationships isn't necessary a good thing, either, because it oftentimes requires people to see into the future. Yes, in many cases, someone will know if they see a future with you, but if you cut yourself off to anyone who lives in the moment and can't give you a guarantee about tomorrow, you'll be cutting yourself off from a lot of great people and you won't be giving many relationships a chance to grow into something wonderful. Getting your way when its an inconvenience to others? I think that this might want to be examined, too.

Its one thing to be a strong female, but given those three things, I think it goes beyond just being a "strong female" and you may want to try and reel it in a bit.