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Old May 15, 2015, 03:26 AM
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There is a fine line there somewhere.

I am independent and ambitious and certainly speak my mind but I am not afraid to be vulnerable either and do not inconvenience others (intentionally). I think truly strong people are not only "go getters" but also can put others first and are not afraid to be vulnerable.

Honestly I don't see aggression as strength if it is taken out of context. Speaking ones mind and being straight forward isn't aggression unless one is rude.

I see strong person as a combination of independence and ambition mixed with loving nature and kindness. I don't think inconveniencing others or aggressive driving is that cool or honestly sign of strength.

I don't think you must change your personality but you might want to think about what you mean by getting your way? Inconveniencing others? How far you go with that? How do you treat others? Etc if you are a strong person but treat others well then it is great, so I would look into it

Just my opinion of course.

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