I understand. I lost a lot of weight at one point, and it was shocking to see the difference in the way that people treated me (especially guys). I wasn't prepared for it in the least, so I gained the weight back as a protective mechanism. So yes, I do know how people treat you when you're overweight as opposed to when you're a normal weight. I've been told that its all in my head, but I know better, it isn't. I hate how society is so shallow. I want that bell to be un-rung, but it is what it is, and I can't go back to ignorant bliss. People are discriminatory toward those who are overweight, sad to say. It really does make you re-examine the people you have in your life.