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Originally Posted by ididwhat?
I've been on okc, and, if your profile is anything like your post, here... you ought to do just fine. Although... I think dating sites, especially okc, keep people dating... with the idea that there'll always be a better match, or match % out there. I call it the "bigger-better-more" syndrome. 
I prefer honesty... even brutal honesty. I think you have a very healthy attitude about online dating sites... But, how do you know for sure if someone is truly honest until you invest the time to get to know them..? (that's almost a rhetorical question...). Good luck.
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Thank you. I agree with your last statement, you don't. All one can do is be honest themselves and hope that with their honesty they will attract like minded individuals but you won't know that until you interact.
I figure with putting it up front as I did, that I am being totally honest and know that this may mean less hits, it kind of sets it up for attracting people that would appreciate that too and therefore are likely more honest also
As for the percentage thing. it's all a façade. don't care about the percentages on okc or any other site. far too many times I've seen a high percent then when I read their profile it's like whaaat, no.. LOL I think it's all in reading profiles and then getting to know people that will be the determining factor in whether a match has been made
Thanks for your input!