Looking for some help. I am 32 and have been in numerous short term relationships and always end them. I have no problem getting attached quickly almost too much, and suddenly I feel anxious about the relationship ending or fearful that the other person will not want to be wiggle anymore..I literally can't stand the negative thoughts I have sometimes. I need a lot of reassurance from my current partner but hide this problem well, in fact I present as very confident and independent, which I often am once I feel secure, for example after we've had a lovely evening together and we have been close. I have tried to work out where this has all come from and from my understanding of attachment styles and experience in childhood I believe that my personal experience in my adolescent years of being let down very badly by my parents has meant that I have developed an insecure attachment style. The problem is is that I have no idea how to not feel the destructive feelings I have, regardless of knowing that they are irrational. Does anyone have any advice?