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My boyfriends daughter lived with us for over two years.
She c annot hold a job due to her mental illnesses/bi-polar, depression/addition to drugs and alcohol. She is 43 yrs. old and has had this problem since she was 14 years old.
Her Dad has spent thousands of $$ for rehab which does not seem to work; or it will work for awhile, then she reverts back to her old ways.
She was given Disability Benefits from the DAV - Disabled American Vets, as she was in the Army for 8 years. That was awarded in January, and she obtained (free) housing through them.
Right now, she is loosing this apartment due to having the Police called to her apartment; and doing drugs and alcohol.
Her Dad "refuses" to play hardball with her, bending to her wishes. He wants to let her return to our living situation, which in a 5th wheel, with little room and no privacy. I feel totally lost. I told him that I would leave it he let her return here, and he just tells me to leave. I feel LOST! It seems that he doesn't even care, that he would pick his child over me, after we have been together for 11 years.
We don't know "what" to do with her?
She has stolen alcohol from us, stolen our pain medications, she has stolen money from us; and stolen thousands of dollars of other things, like guns..or other material things.
Any suggestions?
We do we do with her?
No other family members want anything to do with her, so PLEASE help!
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