I don't understand why you have lower expectations for your friends than for a partner (moral wise). Its not ok for him to dog two women....but only if you're dating him? That is, his disgusting behavior is ok if you're only his friend? I know I couldn't be friends with someone who treats two women like dirt! (And why would you want to be his friend?) There are BILLIONS of people out there. I am pretty confident in saying that you can find a better friend.