Hi all. This coming Sunday will be the first anniversary of my boyfriend's death-unexpected from a heart attack.

I've tried to avoid thinking about it-that day I'll be at a conference and otherwise occupied in the PM but I still want to do something in his memory.

My Jewish friend asked if I wanted to do a Yahrzeit ceremony with her where you light a candle(or, in her case). plug in a wall light and say the Kaddish-might be helpful.

thoughts appreciated!

AC