Hi ! I really think you have been through so much abuse,
so I would definitely tell them the truth. You are the person
that needs to be comforted and supported and loved unconditionally. I told my family 2 years ago the truth, why I do
not attend any family functions. I usually get very depressed.
Well, I heard my 2 of my family members saying that
depression was all in my head. So, I decided to avoid them
at all costs. They both have apoloigized after they realized
that I would not talk to them. I finally accepted the fact if
people make fun out of me, because I have depression, well, I do not need to accept this kind of behavior, from anyone. I already have been suffering from this illness.
I wish you the very best. Sending you a bunch of HUGS!