Individuals are only experts on themselves, there is no generic "right" answer to any sexual questions. If something bothers you, it bothers you. If something bothers him, it bothers him. That's not right or wrong, it's personal preference and everyone gets to have one. Outside opinions, whether from we here on this board or from our partner does not really count because only we can decide what we want, need, like and want to do/have done for ourselves.