OMG Petunia,

I just came from therapy and we spent the entire session discussing the relationship.

You said:

</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Get what you need from the relationship.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> That is exactly what T said. He is so warm and caring. (ooooh heebie jeebies)

He said he hopes I would feel safe enough to explore my longings. I said I would have to open my heart instead of my head and that frightened me. I kept floating away, becoming ungrounded because of the fear of the intimacy. But the cat's outta the bag now....the exploration has begun.

Thanks for your response.