Yea I understand that. I just explained to her that it's not about her and it's not personal. Ironic thing is, she's been through this same thing before and I hoped she would have more empathy with my situation, but it seems like she wants me to hurry up and get better. I did make an effort to see her not too long ago. How can I show them the progress I've made? I feel the only way to do that is to keep contacting them first and making concrete plans to hang out. What are some other ways?