I am in a relationship with someone who is depressed. I have known them a little over a year and we have been dating almost 8 months. They are kind, compassionate, empathetic, loving but when this major bout hit a few weeks ago they pushed me away hard and fast. They were not mean, just really retreated into a shell and hid. While they have said they are not looking for a relationship right now but need to focus on their mental health, they also tell me they care and even love me. I am trying to step back, maintain the friendship we have built everything upon and be supportive as all the resources say to. I have asked for more input on what they want but they do not provide it. I know they expect me to leave because everyone else has always just walked away when they push they away at a time of a major depressive episode. I am not comfortable with that, they are in pain and struggling and I am trying my best to be supportive.
I suppose I am seeking input. Anyone else seen this? Suggestions?
Thanks!