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Old May 17, 2015, 11:02 AM
Yearning0723 Yearning0723 is offline
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Originally Posted by Coco3 View Post
Did you have a session with her that you didn't record? How did you feel after that? I think recording and transcribing might give to much importance to every little detail.

But... always go with your gut. If it doesn't feel right, she might not be the right T for you.
Perhaps, but whenever I've recorded sessions with my current T, I've found it very helpful. For example, I've noticed how often I deflect the question and change the subject when she asks how things make me feel. Also I've noticed that I typically say "like" at least 200 times within an hour long session and have resolved to eliminate that word from my vocabulary. I find it helps me pick up on patterns and I don't tend to get stuck on the little things; only the things that repeat over and over.