It's not that. I understand.. correction, I KNOW that things get overlooked. But, when one of my threads isn't overlooked, people don't seem to find my problems interesting for a more involved reply for them to post, and they leave no hugs behind, which may sound silly but it depresses me like crazy, and all I know is that I'm stressed out afterwards with no hope left in me, I swear to God that's what happens. I sometimes see threads with zero replies that have hugs, even if they (the threads) were posted for a long time, and not from new members. I want everybody to be honest with me, and say directly that what I said isn't serious, and I will then understand the argument instead of wandering in circles, making guesses and explanations as to why such thing happened to me.