You and I aren't so different, I wanted a girl more like me in my area. I'm like this to connect with out the ********. I don't believe aggression is bad unless it gets so far you hurt people. I don't know you so I can't say anything for certain read my posts hopefully you'll find some helpful hints and similarities in your predicament. I am a make but I am associated with being rude and a jerk to people who get easily offended by silly petty things. I will not say nice things to certain people to pretend to win favor. If I don't like them I ignore them. I usually get misunderstood. There is a fine line between aggressive and abusive my ex was abusive in a very aggressive way I have a very hard life in certain aspects but I choose to be happy instead because that's what I like to project unto others happiness. I liked your post alot. You remind me of myself alot those words you use. Thank you