This is a triggering subject. Are there any men who haven't molested someone? Crazy question, right? It just seems like a large portion of men in my life seemed capable of it. I remember avoiding men or boys at every turn when I was a child, because my instincts told me they were dangerous sexually, especially with the strange way they looked at me or tried to get me alone. I have never engaged in any sexual actions in embarrassing or questionable circumstances with another person, such as with a childhood friend or relative. However, when I really get to know others, I feel like I'm in the 1% of people who haven't. I may be partly asexual. Yet I was still molested by a man I couldn't get away from.

I just want to know... Are there any men out there who have never received sexual gratification from another person against their will, which includes everything from touching to more? I just realized that maybe it's possible for this to be untrue?

I'd really like to know. I also have a hard time believing when someone thinks their male friend, relative, acquaintance, etc, have never molested anyone. From my own experience, it seems that even the most trustworthy men do it. I'm not trying to define a gender, but I'm just putting two and two together. It's just that so many women I know have been molested once they talk about it, and I feel like there'd be a lot more if some more women and men admitted it happened.

I feel that sexual abuse is a very, very unfair trade. The girl, woman, man, or boy has a traumatic event to live with while the sexual abuser gets a very short moment of gratification that they'll probably forget about. Are people really that selfish if they can get away with something?