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Old May 18, 2015, 02:35 AM
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Originally Posted by alexa00018 View Post
Totally sympathise. I've been told in the past that I'm too "full on" with girls. But its hard to work out whether I'm being teased, or if I'm too pushy. Like you, I don't sleep with anybody, but feeling a bit horny and drinking makes me want to have fun. Honestly, I think some girls just get scared, well most if my experience is anything to go by. One of these days that chick might get drunk and change her mind, not that I'm saying its good to get somebody drunk...
Oh, hope that made sense..
TLDR: You're not alone

Well she is talking to me again now which is good. We're not in the same area anymore though. To be honest I'm sort of trying to get to know her. I don't want her to think I only see her in a sexual way cause she seems like a nice cool person too and I would actually like to get to know her. I don't know where life is taking me as I just graduated but I would say I'd be interested in a relationship at somepoint so idk...unlikely to be her but we'll see I guess if she keeps talking to me and sees that I'm actually nice and not just attracted to her lol.

The thing about getting someone drunk is I think a lot of people do get horny.. It's probably blood flow. Nonetheless they say it's sort of rape, but I don't agree with that if you're still aware of what is happening and conscious enough to say yes or no and have the other person respect that. That being said...it probably is easier to make out or have sex with someone while drunk because they usually want the same thing. Like I said, I'm rather cocky though. Hard not to be when I have this pattern of making out with girls quite a bit at clubs haha. And being hit on. XD

I agree some girls may be scared. It's that you don't know usually what their past experiences have been. So who knows why they say no. It's just important to respect it and keep it consensual even if that means stopping when you're really hot and bothered (and likely annoyed/mad).

Me...I don't mind casual sex. It's nice and rather harmless if done safely. That being said, I'm also an incredibly loyal girlfriend...so whenever I do have a girlfriend she will have nothing to worry about. In the mean time I guess I'm just having the fun that I can while I am single and young!

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