Despite the number of people I was molested by when I was younger I firmly believe there are people that will not do something like that. I believe they are few and far between but they do exist.

Years ago I had a very close friend. I knew he wanted to sleep with me but I didn't feel the same way. He never pushed the issue even when I was blackout drunk around him. He's one of the few people in my life that I could trust unequivocally. He's since gotten married and his wife hates me with a passion so we rarely talk anymore.

I have an exe that I also could not see being an abuser in anyway. We could be in the middle of doing something and if I freaked and said stop or no then without a second of hesitation he stopped and all he cared about was if I was ok.

There are plenty of good guys if you look but plenty of bad people too.