Is this related to her talking about the positive things you are doing in your life? Are you assuming that means she thinks you are all okay and don't need therapy? Or did she actually say the words you are okay and don't need therapy? I ask, because you are prone to misinterpretting her words into meanings that aren't there.

As I mentioned the last time you mentioned she seems to think your life is wonderful (or something along that line), all she seems to be doing is trying to help you give yourself credit for making positive changes in your life -- not actually saying you are all fixed and don't need therapy.

As far as working on the issues surrounding your brother, that sounds like a good plan. Again, I don't think she's saying you don't need to work on the rest, but that particular issue underlies a great deal of your negativity and guilt about yourself, so perhaps she see that as a fundamental issue to work on right now. But she's leaving you in the driver's seat about what you are ready to work on; she's always done that with you so you can have the control there.

I guess I'm not certain what you have posted is actually words she said, or if it is interpretations you made.