Hey SongBirdandDaisy

I totally understand what you are going through. I went through that with my first marriage.

I agree with getting a third party/T and look at all your option and know you have try everything to repair the demanage.

Which every way your decide its not going to be easy. For me after 6mths of therapy and trying to make it work, I realised that I couldn't change his ways and that it was a sink or swim situation.

I have had other friends go through it and stay and things have worked for them because the other was willing to change.

God Bless
XX
SpringStar