Wrigh430, wow, so much has happened all because you did not conform to the religious views of the society you live in - I am so sorry you and your son have been so negatively affected.

At the end of the day, what "society as a whole" thinks about you shouldn't matter, as long as you still have family and a few close friends that are there to support you. What upsets me is that your family seems to shun you out too! Do you find that you usually engage in heated arguments with your family about religion? Do you think you can tell them ahead of time for the next family reunion that "look I want to come over and see you guys but we're not going to even mention religion, ok?"